Hector the herbalist is looking for a safe and stable room with like-minded people
Men
1
Women
0
Children
0
Age
28
Province
Zuid-Holland
City
Rotterdam/Schiedam/Delft/Den Haag
Ideal location
Rotterdam West/Schiedam/Delft/Den Haag
Ideal space
1. A room in a share house with likeminded people and space to be human. i like to hear fellows tinkering away in the background 2. affordable (i currently earn minimum wage and limited to how much i can work due to my health) 3. timely: something in the next few months as i am currently homeless, moving from place to place and need foundations for my health 4. With a green space is a plus!
Ideal group
Safe and understanding space for queer people Eats together every so often but commitment freeeee, my kitchen is often open for passersby when I am settled so is more spontaneous thing. Smoking: preferably not around the house
Can commit a few hours a month to broader social/community engagement. Currently in a general old sublet situation but actively involved myself in the local community centre.
Describe yourself
Hi! I'm Hector, I need a place to build foundations on, I am currently homeless (not roofless but homeless), I am currently on sick leave due to the stress of my housing situation. I am still in an explorative mindset and riding this wave though! Doing my best to lean into what matters: connection and authenticity.
The more general parts of me: I've recently graduated from my studies in Herbal Medicine and am working bridge jobs as a courier while I set up my herbal business and start taking patients. It is frustrating at the moment as I really want a place to settle so I can start investing in the herbal business, people want my workshops etc but i find it hard to go ZZP when my rent is so precarious as I live from sublet to sublet.
Originally from Wales and lived in The Netherlands on and off for ten years, my dutch is niet bijna maar aaan de weg
Throughout my studies I moved around a bit too often as I tried to finish my study in the uk and hold onto my healthcare here. Now I am free to settle in one spot, I search for a stable room in a set-up with likeminded people so that I can really invest in all of the wild oats I have sewn through my 20s
As a roomie I am pretty pro-active and attentive to the people and the house/structure that I live with/in. I really understand personal space as well and love it when our paths as co-livers connect, and the times when they stray too. I have lived in many different community and house share set-ups throughout my 20s and continue to develop my communication skills and practise openness in myself and openness with others. Life is much sweeter when you lean in
I am a queer trans man (hence doing my best to hold onto my life and my healthcare in The Netherlands as the situation for trans folk turns dire in the UK). More than that, I am very real and very human: I value good communication skills, health, stability, creativity, exploration, freedom, kindness.
I'm a cook at heart, I love to feed others. I enjoy reading, going to the library, cooking, going for walks, spending time in green spaces, connecting with others, going to art events. My work as a herbalist is my contribution to making the world a better place
Contact information
@herbalhector (instagram)
please contact me via this forum, am happy to chat in the messages or to exchange telephone numbers